xosofiya Hi! I agree. But it would be genuinely wonderful if someone besides me would voice and substantiate their position too—and propose their own ideas. And yes, the toggle idea is good. I can't say whether I'd use such an option myself, since I don't know if it would make me uncomfortable or not.
But IMHO, a disable feature is necessary because there should always be choice.
Yes, this creates extra work for GMs. But if GMs want to implement such features, there must be an option to disable them if you dislike it. Because the simplest way to ignore changes on a beloved server is to leave it—when it evolves in ways you dislike. Yet people will never say why they're leaving, to avoid unnecessary conflicts.